This is a spell that will attract the love you need to your life. To perform it, you will need to do some serious soul searching, and have a long conversation with yourself. The reason is that magick is essentially a neutral force. What it does and where it goes is entirely dependent on the practitioner. Casting a vaguely positive spell might make you feel vaguely positive for a bit, and might send some vaguely positive vibes into your immediate environment, but that’s about the best you can hope for.
Magick works – really, really works – when there is specific intent to direct it, and sufficient energy to propel it. Magick has no moral code of its own, which is why it can be dangerous in the hands of people without enough presence of mind to finish what they start. Therefore it is of vital importance that you approach it with a clear head, and a healthy respect for what can be unleashed.
Well before the day you plan to perform the spell, get paper and a pen, and write down exactly what sort of partner you want and why. Get specific – incredibly specific. Not specific enough to name an actual person, because that would constitute interfering with the free will of another human being, and that is not worth the major repercussions that will happen, guaranteed.
The purpose of this exercise is to make sure that you are absolutely crystal clear as to what you want. Once you have you achieved this clarity, write out what you want in list form, for easier reading later. Put this list in a safe place until the day you perform the spell.
Note: This sort of magick is best done when the Moon is waxing, in order to take advantage of that particular energy.
What You’ll Need:
- A red candle
- A lodestone
- Iron filings
- Piece of paper with your list
- A small, heatproof container or a length of aluminium foil
- Matches or a lighter
- Something small to stir ashes with
- A piece of red cloth
Light the candle. Place the lodestone next to it and firmly say, “This stone is me.”
Next, take out your list, and say, “This is my (lover/partner/boyfriend/whatever term you want) who…” and read out loud everything on your list, as though it is in the present tense. You need to mean what you read, and visualize it actually happening.
When you’ve finished reading, burn the list completely, collecting the ashes in the container or on the foil. Next, take the iron filings, and mix them with the ashes. Then, place the lodestone on the red cloth, and pour the iron filings and ashes mixture on the lodestone, saying, “What I want, comes to me!” three times.
Finally, wrap the lodestone and the iron filings and ashes mixture all up tightly in the red cloth, saying, “As I will, so it must be!” Finally, take your red cloth bundle and put it in a very safe place.
(For an alternative spell to attract your dream lover, see our Attract Lover Spell Kit, which comes with ritually charged ingredients and step-by-step instructions. The spell uses herbs, talismans and candle magick to attract a wonderful new romance into your life.)