This is a simple confidence spell to increase your self-esteem and self-worth. It uses tiger’s eye, a crystal which strengthens the solar plexus chakra. The solar plexus is the seat of our will, and a weakened solar plexus may manifest in lack of confidence. Tiger’s eye is also a crystal that combines solar and earth energy, producing a vibration of grounded confidence.
For this confidence spell, you will need:
- A golden candle
- A tiger’s eye crystal or orgonite
- Sandalwood essential oil
- Clothes that are red, yellow or orange in colour (optional)
Lay out all your tools in the centre of what will be your circle. Begin by meditating on what you would like the outcome of your spell to be. Be sure to be clear about your desired outcome – in what areas of life would you like more confidence? How would you like to act in future situations? The more specific you are, the better your results will be.
Now cast your circle, and sit in the middle of it facing south (which corresponds to the element of Fire). Take the golden candle, and place three drops of sandalwood on it. Rub the sandalwood into the candle, while saying the following:
I call upon the energies of the Sun and the Earth,
To help me find my confidence and self-worth.
Next, light the candle and place it in front of you. Take the tiger’s eye and cup it in your hands. Now, look into the flame, and as you do so, imagine a golden light shining down on you from above (if it helps you to visualise, you can close your eyes). Make this light as beautiful and vibrant as you can in your imagination. This light is the unconditional love the Universe has for you. As you bathe in this golden energy, see yourself in the eyes of the Universe – or the God and Goddess, if you prefer. See the Universe loving you as a parent would a child, loving you just for existing, no conditions attached. Feel your heart opening to this energy. Now see the light becoming bigger and bigger, first filling the circle, and then the whole room. Take as much time as you need for this visualisation.
Once you feel that the room is full of this light, open your hands, and start feeling the tiger’s eye crystal absorbing all this energy. See the golden light pouring into the crystal until it is all contained within.
Once you are finished, close your circle. Keep the tiger’s eye with you, and use it to tap into the golden energy of unconditional love by holding it and meditating with it every time you feel you need a boost of confidence. Over time, you will start naturally feeling the confidence that comes from truly loving yourself unconditionally.